tHe selF-cEntered mIe

Life is so fragile…

It's like when it breaks it will never be the same ever again, even if u stick the pieces all together, or no matter how you put in anyway at all. People seem to take for granted on everything they do, and I am no exceptional case. Sometimes we take people around us for granted and how life has shown us ways to appreciate everyone but we never seems to hold our believe that life is short and we need to reflect once in awhile where we stand and where we put everyone in our heart. Sometimes life isn't fair if we look at it at a perspective but if we look in many other ways we were actually given many opportunities to be a better person. That is to treat everyone as a unique individual whether if the person you may see as flawless our "faulty" (so said and done with).

Recently a death of a colleague has had me realize that I have not been giving everyone an equal opportunity to be closer to me even as a friend. Though we sometimes are judgmental, which most of us are, we really need to open our hearts and accept others as who they are and try to accommodate if we could, but if not it's better not to hurt anyone because they deserve equal as you or even more. I have realize this many times but I am only human to fail many times to realize those worthy of my friendship or even more. May I realize the mistakes I have done and never to repeat it all again.

May the 19th July 2008 be kept special for a friend I have hardly knew but I know he is now in the safe arm of the Almighty God.


To those I may have forgotten and ever taken granted for please forgive me for all I have done wrong towards you directly or indirectly. And for those I may not have given chance for you to know me better I would and only if you ask. And may I have the courage to know others as who they are and not what they may be there for. May I not be too judgemental of others ever again.

With this I would like to thank everyone who has ever come across in my life and if I ever ignore you once I will never do it twice.